Language Creates Your Reality
If only I had learnt years ago that what I say to myself and others would shape my life. I know that alot of my choices would have been so different. My language was filled with “it’s too hard” and “I can’t do it” and “I’ll do it later”… but later never came
What I didn’t know was that by using this sort of language I was actually shaping my life myself into something that I did not want to be, Negative. People around me were avoiding me because unintentionally I was giving off negative vibes that unconsciously they were picking up on.
There came a day when it hit me. When I finally realised that something has to change. I remember hearing somewhere that your language creates your reality… Well my reality isn’t exactly ideal right now I thought, so I dug a little deeper into that statement and that’s when all the pieces finally come together.
I remember the day I read a quote … I read lots of quotes but this one hit home… I got it!
“If you say you CAN or you say you CAN’T you are right”
Yes it sounds simple…but it took some practice to get this to become part of my everyday language and part of my everyday thinking. You see what I found when I dug a little deeper was that what you tell yourself and others on a consistent basis become your reality. So it began.
Little by little I started by changing a few words at a time in my language from positive to negative.
Instead of being Angry I Was Disenchanted.
Rather than being Afraid… I was aware of unfamiliarity
I no longer say I can’t. My new vocabulary now only allows me to say… “What if I could” ‘How can I”
You see Awareness is the key. You know what they say , awareness is 90% of the journey I became aware and changed my positive to negative words immediately.
The difference is amazing. In a short time, People are commenting on the way my views have changed to the positive. Now I have a new found sense of belief.
The positive results are flowing through all parts of my life. And because I’m aware now and open to the opportunities that are presenting them, I am experiencing unbelievable success.
Now here’s an inside tip if you really want to step up to another level. Really feel the words you are saying…don’t hold back if you are experiencing a moment in time … really live it, and language it that way.
- Today I am awesome
- That work is brilliant
- I did a sensational job on that piece of work.
How good does that feel when you say it like that?
I then started having some fun to and changing my positive words to more positive words… this is fun. It changed the way a felt on a daily basis… here is what I mean.
Good to AWESOME
Fine to FABOULUS
Like to LOVE
By living doing this it really has made a difference in how I now experience my life.
I know fully appreciate that our words describe our experiences which became our reality. I am aware, positive and I am better for it.
Best of it is the simplest things we do consistently that make the biggest difference.
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