See fear as the work we need to do
We need to realize that this is the thing for us to move towards.
Because one of our jobs here is to release the fear that we have inside us and the only way to do that is by doing the thing that we're afraid of. It's to face the fear.
Susan Jeffers wrote a really great book on this called "Feel The Fear & Do It Anyway".
What she talks about is the importance of taking action on the things that bring up the fear. Breathing it in and facing it. And with facing our fears we release our fears, they leave us, and then we become fearless.
For example, I always wanted to be a professional coach, a professional speaker. When I first started professional speaking, I had so much fear around being in front of a camera. And it just took me so long to record a video being in front of stage.
At the beginning I couldn't sleep the night before. And then I started doing these things repeatedly which released the fear.
Now I can stand up in front of an audience without fear. But the only reason why is not because I didn't have the fear in the first place.
It's because I did have the fear in the first place.
And then I decided to consciously do the things that I was afraid of. So now I don't have the fear.