Over the last 18 months of being a coach of coaching others, how have you grown personally, as a man?
It is so important for men. For me, I don't see many guys on this type of journey, and I saw so many of my mates just living week to week and just wasting their weekends away drinking and things. I wanted something different for me. So, my growth in these 18 months has been astronomical. It's honestly been huge. Like just looking back to where I was 18 months ago to where I am now so much has changed.
I have so much more confidence and so much more emotional intelligence. I know so much more about myself, so much more about others. My relationships improved. I've taken so many more risks. My growth has been phenomenal, and I love that it's still so early in my journey and it's still so far to go.
Did you have any official coach training or start learning from ground zero?
I've had experiences earlier on like coaching under 18 football clubs and I've always been someone who people would come to for help. I like indirectly, I was trying to coach in a little bit. But all of these techniques, which I learned, was nothing like that. So it was, to be honest, totally foreign territory in that sense.
What do you love about learning and your ability to learn this skill?
I remember early on, there was no confidence at all. I look at some of these people, like yourself (Matt) and Joe like, ‘are these wizards, how do they do it?’ and I felt like I couldn’t do it. And so early on, it was really tough. It was like, ‘how am I going to do this?’
But over time, I've learnt more and more. I just leaned into it. And the more experienced more hours I'd do and the more trainings I go to, the more it becomes natural. And now I find when I'm hanging out with new people or meeting new people, I can pick up so many things about them, even about myself. And it just makes building relationships with new people and all your current relationships so much better because you understand why people do, what they do and why you do what you do.
How are you using your coaching in your coaching business?
I'm a financial coach and I've kind of mixed my love of personal finance and money with my love of helping people and personal development to become a financial coach.
I'm working with couples mainly, to help them with their money, but at the same time, they come for me for the money but then they realize there's so much more than that. That's where I have a real holistic approach to life, to money, and to relationships. So, it starts with the money then it goes a lot deeper with all the techniques and things I've learnt through the school.
Did you know that you would go into financial coaching?
It kind of evolved. It was always a big passion of mine. But it wasn't until I got my first business coach and he kind of helps me get clear on that and I discovered that it is the direction I should head.
What would you say to someone who is inspired by your message and is considering joining the coaching Institute and starting their journey to become a coach?
Just do it, feel the fear and do it anyway. You won't regret.