But the answer is right there in that paradox.
Unless you face the rough waters, unless you are OK with inviting challenges, you're doing the same thing, you're going through the motions, you're on auto-pilot and you're going to get the same results.
You have choice in that moment to say, "Enough of what's not working, I am willing to claim a different future!"
I truly believe that we're shaping our next moment right now. You can make decisions to give you the opportunity to become the person you admire in 4 years' time, 5 years' time, 10 years's time.
If you too are just starting to scratch the surface, to exploring the possibilities, to listening to that whisper within.