The third thing Sharon and JP do every day, not just so their relationship survives coronavirus, is share a gratitude for each other.
"It has to be for the other person, and we say, 'I am so grateful for you because ... ' and then we share a highlight of the day," she says.
"And yes, it is okay sometimes to say, 'There was no highlight and right now I'm not grateful for you one little effing bit.' We're human!"
Remember you can't be everything to each other all the time. Talk to your friends about things while your partner talks to theirs. Nobody has the answer to everything and no one person should be your sole comforter and confidante.
"Even if you're in the same room as each other, take a break mentally. Go ring someone and get the answer somewhere else, or just don't express it. Not everything has to be shared all the time," says Sharon.
"In the interests of honesty, sometimes I get, 'Shut up SP, and don't share that.'
Times like this are a magnifier of what's really going on in our hearts and minds. Know it's so important now to be #strongertogether (even when someone is driving you nuts.)