Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'This means I am to blame for everything.'
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'This means I caused bad things to happen.'
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'This means my karma is bad/good/etc.'
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'This means I can't tell anyone when I get something 'wrong', because they'll judge me as not being at cause.'
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'I need to reframe everyone who's having a hard time until they see they are at cause.'
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'This is useful as a concept,' and then promptly forget about it and carry on like nothing happened.
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'That's true some of the time, but you don't know me or what I'm experiencing.'
Some people will agree to this, and interpret it as: 'Cool, so I can change my thinking, and that will change my results.'
And a 1,000 other interpretations. Don't assume that saying the way you intend to say something is also how it’s received. It rarely is.
And that’s what coaching is about.
As a coach, or someone who is interested in becoming one, you calibrate, gauge and adjust based on your client’s behaviour, not on their agreement.
I’m thinking the time’s right for you.
Yes?
Rock on.
Sharon